So as I said I meet a nice guy through another website (kinda like myspace) but geared towards bikers...my favs :)
So upon talking to him through there and then yahoo messenger we some how got on the subject of BDsM......LOL Actually not sure how but think it was me who started it....hence the name sassy...tee hee
He then told me of a group through yahoo that are based out of NH that I should join he has met some of them and has gone to a few of their socials.
Either way it came around that he hasn't been able to find a willing partner to "play" with or you all know the ones who say "what are you crazy?" Not me attitude....tee hee
So we decided to meet Friday night to see if we "clicked" It is funny to run into a Dom that is shy though...Quite endaring actually....made me all that more comfortable to have some one as shy as I can be....lol So we go to his house and he offers me some food and we sat and chatted over every day things to break the ice and calm each others nerves...I think his more so than mine :)
After a while as it seemed He was not sure as to how to start things I asked if He'd like to choose which skirt He would like me to wear, I think by me topping from the bottom helped, He choose a skirt and I then asked if He wanted me to change at that time.....of course He said yes....tee hee
When I came out of the bathroom He was quite pleased :) I sat back down on the couch (were I was Him across the room on chair) His confidence level went up I think (among other things LOL) cause He told me to come stand in front of Him..."yes Sir" He proceeded to inspect me especially my behind. After a good look over and pleasant remarks on a quality behind made for spankings He told me to kneel facing him...which I readily replied "yes Sir" with a smile.
He had me lean into Him and thrust out my behind as He slowly dragged my flogger over my rear and up my back to my neck I got goose bumps and excited over the upcoming whippens!!
Yes I've come to the realization that I am with out a doubt a masocist...I have a high tolerance for pain especially in the hind end....and I enjoy it greatly...I love being pushed to the point of screams no one has yet to bring me to tears.....sigh But Sir is without a doubt the best I've dealt with it turns out....Amazing how someone without actual experience is the best at it....He obviously listened well to those who advised Him in the past!!! Sir understood the concept of warming up the area better than me....lol I have since then been doing some more reading on the subject.
Well after sitting in front of Him for a while and enjoying Sirs caresses and light spankings Sir had me get my wrist restraints and we moved to Sir's room where Sir hooked my wrists together and hung them from the ceiling :) Oh the true feeling of happiness *big grin* Sir was so sweet and gentle yet Masterful all at once, what a great Dom He will become!!!
As Sir proceeded to flog me and progressively get harder He would always check me to make sure I was OK and where I was at between 1-10. 1 being bored to tears and 10 the oposite....lol Sir would also check my wrists and my shoulder (have a bad shoulder) to make sure I wasn't cutting off circulation to them.
I never dealt with such a observant Dom what a difference in being able to relax more. As Sir got my ass to a nice red He decided to take me down from ceiling and took out one of my toys told me to sit on the bed and use it for Him......OK this is where I can be very shy especially in front of someone new but even still was never something I did openly with the lights on...tee hee
My face turned brighter than my ass and told Sir I couldn't, now this is where I finally got to see someone who could actually Dom me...lol Sir told me too or He would snap a pencil across my ass, at which point I giggled and said so.....pencil who knew??? I was wrong and felt the sting of that lil bugger when Sir snapped it on different spots of my ass....Lesson learned on that one tee hee.
I think Sir knew that I was not yet comfortable with doing what he asked so He proceeded to use the toys on me instead.....aahhhhhhhh
What a wonderful night and that was only Friday night....tee hee Saturday was even better.........to be continued